About the Book

Red Flags, Green Flags is a practical and eye-opening guide that teaches you how to identify healthy and toxic behaviors across every area of your life, from dating and friendships to family dynamics and the workplace. Written by internationally recognized psychologist Dr. Ali Fenwick, this book gives you the psychological tools to stop reacting and start responding with clarity and confidence.

From the Back Cover

Whether you love the drama or run from it, this book meets you where you are. It is a real-world manual for understanding the people around you and, more importantly, understanding yourself so you can make better choices in every relationship you have.

About the Author

Dr. Ali Fenwick is a Professor of Organisational Behaviour and Innovation at a top FT-ranked business school and the founder of the Dr. Fenwick Lab for Human Behavior and Technology. With over 20 years of research and hands-on experience, he is trusted by executives, organizations, and millions of social media followers worldwide as the modern day psychologist who makes complex psychology simple, relatable, and genuinely useful.

Who Is This Book For?

This book is for anyone who has ever felt stuck in a toxic friendship, confused by a partner’s behavior, or powerless against a difficult boss. If you want to build stronger boundaries, grow your emotional intelligence, and finally understand what makes relationships healthy or harmful, this is the book you have been looking for.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Q1. What topics does Red Flags, Green Flags cover? The book covers a wide range of real-life situations including toxic friendships, romantic red flags, gaslighting, boundary setting, workplace manipulation, family dynamics, and modern dating. It uses real psychology to explain both the warning signs and the healthy signals in all types of relationships.

Q2. Is this book only about romantic relationships? No. While dating and romance are covered, the book also focuses on friendships, family relationships, and workplace behavior. It is a complete guide to understanding human behavior in all social settings, making it useful for anyone who interacts with other people every day.

Q3. Can this book help me if I already know a little about psychology? Yes. Dr. Fenwick writes in a clear, engaging style that works whether you are totally new to psychology or already familiar with the basics. The book adds depth and real-world application to concepts you may have heard of but never fully understood in the context of your own life.

Q4. How is this book different from other self-help books? Unlike generic advice books, Red Flags, Green Flags is grounded in behavioral science and written by a certified academic expert with over two decades of research experience. It goes beyond surface-level tips by explaining the psychology behind each behavior, so you are not just spotting problems but truly understanding them.